realli not sure if it does works...for some couples yesh but for others, not neccessary...do men realli nid SEX so much? DOes love+sex realli nid to come together for a reLationShip to work? i totally disagree lorx...cuz i believe that it can work withouT it...its the chemistry in the relationship itself...duNno but i jux wanna last with dear...but i dun think i wan thAt uneccessary factor to come into the piCture... yes i do agree that it miGht hlp but i think that concept is more for the married couples than to be applied to unmarried ones...say that im conservative...knowing that im actualli quite open...i still think that 1st nite shud be presented to ur spouse...and theres so many pple whu are not treasuring it...and treat sex as sth v normal...izit realli dat so?
i think its pretty hard to be involved with some stranger...even with the one u love it might be difficult cuz u dunno whether he is the one for u...wad if he isnt? wad will happen in the future...althou the guys now are mayb more open as in they dun mind not having a virgin wife...but think...someone else screwed ur wife lehz! okie kinda crude but how do i get the point across?
but it doesnt mean that a couple will not divorce even after marriage...infact the numbers are gg up so fast lors...
but wads is the men's point of view? it seems super easy for them to get into one nite stand...or even multiple stands in one nite? like man is jux one knOb but women has tonnes of them...do they realli think with their head below?
as we grow older...the siGnificance of sex seems to diminish...the person whu look like a big flirt might still b a virgin and a super guAi lookin one had already tasted the forbidden apple...and the concept shows itself whether 2 ppl work out is not based by that special relationship that links it...cuz there are couples out there who still broke up even thou dey had that "forbidden" magic in their relationship...
when 2 hav diff perceptions n opinions abt something as sensitive as this...whu is the one to giv in? cuz the concepts are totalli opposite of each other...WORLDS APART...how shud the lifestyle be changed...for them to continue as a couple?
personally...i dun believe in oPposite attracts...neither do we wan 2 to be too similar cuz the extremes of both = FRICTION in the diff. aspects of life...now im getting confused by was im trying to sae...the tots are floating through myhead...so am i open or am i conservative now?
so wads the conclusion? NUTTIN... cuz i feel that is someting that differs for everyone...their views abt a relationship...views on sex etc. and wad u wish for in a relationship...
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We LovE, beCauSe HE 1st LovEd uS...
The One & ONLI
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pHysiO-to-bE...who was borN...
on 13th mAy 1987
im nuTtiN but a crAzy gAl and oNe wHo conStAntly seeks for fun n relAxation...
LOVES;
huBbY ChUbi
YumMy fOOd:
dArK chOcoLAte
chOco-miNt iCe crEaM
eScaGots
FuN aNd lAuGhTer:
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DaNcinG (my eveRlAsting pAssion)
wAtcH tV
sLacK
PlaY mY drUms
diStUrB mY frEnz
stuFfs thAt giMme an AdrEnAlin ruSh =)
tRaveLLin
shOPpiN
pEoPle:
cArol deAr
soTonG ZheN zhEn
mAryAnn dArliN
pEixi tHe siAo
pAtRiciA the crAzy
tinGting the gAlgAl
HATES;
mY bOokS! hAte to stUdy mAn!
hYpOcriTes (unfortuNately dEy are ard!)
*giMme some time to aDd to thE liSt*
DESIRES;
moSt imPtlY
cASh
more cloThEs
a niCe wAtcH
dO dAmn weLL in mY stUdies to gO to aUstRAliA
moRe fReeDoM
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